Tuesday 30th August 2016
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What I’m wearing into the ground right now

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My style could probably be described as tomboyish a lot of the time, but in the warmer months, I try to throw a little bit of sexiness into the mix.  Once winter comes along, however, all hints of this fall away and I just start dressing like a guy. Which used to bother me, and feel like something I had to fix, but now I’m at peace with it. For a while I just missed what it was like back when I was fancy, when I wore pretty dresses with tights almost exclusively the whole season through. (I also had a car and driver, which made doing so substantially easier.) The pressure to look the part in my old job was huge—no matter what I was wearing, I never felt stylish enough—but these days, I’ve got no one to impress. Comfort is key, and my best-loved pieces are ones that not only deliver on that front, but are also made well enough to look pulled-together, not sloppy. Like for instance this Nili Lotan cashmere sweater, whose purchase I rationalized back in August by telling myself I would wear it every day once it got cold—which has turned out to be truer than I’d like to admit. It’s got the exact-right slouchy-but-not-boxy fit, and works with everything. Even though most days “everything” is either a pair of black jeans or a pair of blue ones. (Here’s an also-quite-nice V-neck from Everlane for a lot less cash)

crew striped tee

I bought a couple of cashmere-and-cotton black and white striped tees—one long-sleeved, one short—at Barneys on sale a couple of years ago, and even though they were pretty pricey even marked down, I have not regretted it. Black and white stripes are easier to wear year-round than blue or red—at least they are for me—and almost nobody gets them exactly right. But I do like this one from J. Crew—with its nice, flattering neckline—rather a lot.

black jeans

Here’s a pair of black jeans that look like my beloved R13s, but cost about two-thirds less.

church's boot

These Church’s wingtip Chelsea boots have turned out to be one of my better purchases of the season—they’re hugely walkable, give me just an eensy bit more height than most flat boots do, and are snappy as hell. (Here and here are some less-expensive options.)


Sometimes, it feels like every other person on the street in New York is wearing Canada Goose. But so great is my affection for my newish Canada Goose Rideau parka that I don’t even waste my time feeling like a sheep. In large part this is because it’s a style you don’t see everywhere: the company doesn’t offer the Rideau on their site for some reason, and the version I bought—an excellent army green—is all but sold out on Net-A-Porter (it sold out at Shopbop too). I did manage to track the jacket down at Nordstrom, where they’ve got it in this lovely, subdued navy, as well as a few other colors. And I found it here, too, in a very good grey.

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Recently, I unearthed a rather perfectly reddish-orange scarf  I’ve never gotten a lot of wear out of for whatever reason, and it’s been just the tiniest bit life-changing. Not only is the bright hue a lively counterpoint to all my dark neutrals, but it makes me feel—no matter what else I’m wearing—like I made an effort. Attempting to find a reasonable facsimile to show you here proved challenging—and I was resolved not to go to the Chan Luu site, since I’m always banging on about Chan Luu—but finally I just gave up and went there and sure enough, they had a pretty perfect version.

tessa hat

I have no shortage of hats, but this little confection—which I wrote about a while back—is pretty much the only one I’m interested in wearing right now. The main reason for this is that I think I look cuter when I’m wearing it. In addition to which, like the scarf, it girls things up a bit. And it’s fiercely warm. And also on sale, and how good is that?

Posted on January 7th, 2016 33 Comments

Tuesday trifecta


boston birkenstockThe temperature dropped hideously overnight, and today all I’ve got on my mind are fluffy warm things, like these lined Birkenstock clogs, which would work quite well for padding around my woefully under-heated apartment in the morning.

shearling boot

shearling-lined boot in a color that strikes me as quite cool.

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More streamlined and office-friendly: this stealthily-lined bootie.

Posted on January 5th, 2016 10 Comments

Top 5 of the week

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I think one day soon I will do a post on really excellent and very loud winter hats—because there are few other accessories we can have splashy good fun with when the weather turns frigid—but today we turn our attention to beanies in subdued shades of black, white, and grey.  First up: a splurgy option from German brand Wommelsdorff that is equal parts deeply stylish and seriously adorable.

ugg beanie

The combination of space-dye and solid here makes for a nice—but not too statement-y—statement.

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I love Mischa Lampert’s super-thick knit hats: they hit flatteringly high on the forehead, and the pom-poms are delightfully (almost comically) oversized. I bought this exact one a couple of years ago and put it on when I want to be really warm and cute at the same time.

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I’m rather crazy for the mix of textures on this Missoni  option.

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And finally: a streamlined choice in cashmere, the lightest of light grey and just as simple as you please. And it rings in at just a speck over $50.

Posted on December 21st, 2015 9 Comments

A Party in a Top, Part 4

tibi party

Briefly—and for those of you just joining in—the Party in a Top is the top so good it makes the outfit. A top with enough versatility to go with jeans or skinny black pants or a skirt, depending on the dressiness of the event. Some Parties in a Top force you to go a bit sexier or louder than you might typically, but isn’t that half the fun of dressing for a party in the first place? I am in love with this off-the-shoulder blouse from Tibi: it manages to be seductive and bare and keep the upper arms under wraps at the same time.

silk tie front

The tie front here is so easy and flattering, and the silk has a just-right amount of sheen.

westwood party

I feel that this option has superior dress-it-up-dress-it-down powers.

suno party

Here’s the Party in a Top I want to be invited to.

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I am not the biggest fan of the one-shoulder top, but this is just so good: the grey is the most elegant shade, and the silhouette so very feminine.

tux shirt

Nothing sexier than a woman in a tux shirt.

gold floral

This material would be altogether too much on a flouncy-type top, but I love it here as a straight-up button-down.

Posted on December 1st, 2015 9 Comments

People! It’s a Zero+Maria Cornejo giveaway! Could you die?

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The object up for grabs is this Elie Top, their luxe-beyond-luxe heavy gauge Italian four-ply cashmere vest/poncho hybrid. There is no designer in my closet whose clothes I get more wear out of than Cornejo, and like most of her pieces that go into super-highest closet rotation, I had to be talked into this one. I couldn’t quite see when I would wear it, or with what. But as it turns out, the answer to that question is: pretty much always, over just about everything, from tees to sweaters to dresses. I am so stupidly excited to be giving this away to one lucky member of the GOACA army. For your chance, just enter here by 5pm, Sunday December 6.

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And here, just for kicks, are five other Cornejo pieces—some of which I own, others that I just covet—which would make for a nifty capsule wardrobe. First up: I am exceeding the GOACA price limit for  this dress, because it is the ass-saver we all need in our closets for when another wedding, important meeting, or occasion when you just generally want to feel good about yourself and look exactly right rolls along. I’m a bit of a chubster at the moment, and recently had to find an outfit for a family Bar Mitzvah where I knew the crowd was going to be on the conservative side. All the tenable options  in my closet don’t fit so great right now, and I wanted long sleeves—which none of my dresses have—to cover up my tattoos, which only made the search more frustrating. Then I found this: possibly the most versatile and flattering dress I have ever owned. You need to go to the site and check out the side view, cause it does a pretty gorgeous drapey thing that you can’t see here.

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I wear my jersey bubble top at least twice a week, which would get pretty gross except for the fact that last year, when I lost mine and no amount of closet excavation would reveal it, I got crazy excessive and bought another. After which point, but of course, I found the original (it was at a friend’s house). But now I’ve always got one ready to wear when the other is in the laundry, so there’s that.

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It wouldn’t be a proper Maria Cornejo capsule wardrobe without some kind of print thrown into the mix, and this one is an instant outfit-maker.

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The biggest reason I’m such a freak for Cornejo is that her collections are like Garanimals for grown-ups: she brings back popular silhouettes every season in different fabrics, and her Gabi Trouser is a perennial. Super-flattering, and eminently dress-up-or-down-able.

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A walkable wedge boot with an edge.

Posted on November 23rd, 2015 19 Comments

Why I don’t stress over what to wear to a formal event anymore

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Back when I was fancy, I used to get invited to a lot of work-related black tie events. They were pretty much always a chore, but a day or two before, the funnest thing would happen: a market editor would wheel into my office a rolling rack jammed with formal dresses that had been called in from various designer showrooms, and I’d get to choose one. (They did the same thing with jewelry. Serious jewelry*.)  It was all very Princess For A Day, right down to the fact that the morning after, everything went back. These days this option isn’t available to me (not that I’d fit into the showroom samples anymore anyway; I lived on yogurt, cigarettes, and stress in those days) but that’s OK. Because I have found the solution to all my black-tie needs: this silky floor length skirt. It’s designed by my dear friend Kathy Kemp, whose store Anna you must visit if you’re ever in the vicinity of E. 11th Street, because she creates super-flattering pieces for real women. The skirt has a slight sheen, which ups the glam factor nicely, and all that’s left for me to do is comb my closet for one of my dressier parties in a top, and I’m set.


*Reader, I wore diamonds from Fred Leighton on my wedding day.

Posted on November 17th, 2015 21 Comments