Wednesday 22nd May 2013
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Mel Gibson: so much worse than we even suspected

I always try to bring some empathy to the party when a famous person looks like they’ve lost the thread in the emotional stability department.  In Britney’s wildest moments, I saw not a big scary bald mess but a lonely girl in exquisite pain. I even found myself caring about Charlie Sheen—who I can’t stand—because his break with reality was being witnessed as entertainment by millions, and he was so out of touch with reality that he had no idea how messed up that was.

But I’ve got nothing for Mel Gibson. He’s obviously crazy as a bag of nuts, but whatever pain he’s in is mixed up with too much violence, misogyny, and anti-semitism—plus a big old whopping dose of denial—for me to see anything but a very dark soul. Especially after reading excerpts in The Daily Beast from Heaven and Mel, an ebook screenwriter Joe Eszterhas has written about the time he spent working on a (really misguided-sounding)  movie collaboration with Gibson. Read on if you dare

*Also: there’s nothing about Sarah Silverman here, but the notion of  Mel Gibson’s face appearing anywhere on this blog is just too loathsome to contemplate, so it seemed right to run a picture of a cute Jewish girl instead.

  • Gibson spoke to Eszterhas about putting out a hit on his then-wife Oksana: “I’m going to have her killed…She’s going to be gone. Gone! And no one will ever know it but me…She is evil. They worship the devil where she comes from.”
  • He does, in fact, appear to share his his father Hutton Gibson’s view that Jews have really blown this whole Holocaust thing way out of proportion, saying “The Holocaust is a bunch of horseshit,” and going on to add “They’re just a bunch of oven dodgers.”
  • He hates John Lennon said he deserved to be shot. “He was fucking messianic! Listen to his songs, `Imagine.’  I’m glad he’s dead.”
  • He didn’t show a whole lot of respect for the fans. Once, a couple approached Gibson at a surf shop and asked if they could take their picture with them. “He smiles graciously and says sure. He turns to Randy and hands him the camera and at the same time draws a line with his fingers across his throat.  After Randy takes the picture, Mel asks, “Did you chop off their heads?” Randy has no idea what he’s talking about. “That’s what I was trying to tell you. Never include the heads when you take the picture. Then it’s worthless.”
  • His views on homosexuality were less than enlightened. While speaking to a reporter from a Spanish magazine, he got up from his chair, pointed to his butt, and said, “This is for shitting, not fucking!…They take it up the ass! This is only for taking a shit.”

 

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Posted on June 6th, 2012 7 Comments

7 Responses

  1. C says:

    Have to dispute the fan respect example. Met him once in LA and he was great – personable, nice, funny. Sad to read all the other stuff- something when very wrong for him.

  2. Heather says:

    I found your blog thanks to NYT and just wanted to say have been loving it!
    Thanks for telling it like it is…!

  3. Lorraine says:

    Well. You’ve found the whole tricky part to compassion…and you’re right, it is hard.

  4. Eve says:

    Loved the idea of substituting sarah silverman for gibson

  5. Viajera says:

    For the record, that man does *not* represent how most Catholics think. Just in case anyone was ever wondering.

  6. rosemary says:

    Sorry to hear what we thought of him was all wrong. I think we have to not treat the famous so different because they are just like the rest of us. Although, many may be more damaged inside that we actually think. Great site and I did find you via NYTimes as well.

  7. M Tenuto says:

    Love this blog. Saw it recommended in Redbook…a nice change for grown ups. It’s important to remember that we don’t have expiration dates as we age! We can love fashion and be inspired by colors and look great at any age. Keep up the good work…!